Empire Pacific Investigative Services

Are you undecided as to whether you want to hire a Private Investigator in Los Angeles, California? Do you find yourself unable to commit to the investigations process? You’re not alone.

Here are a number of reasons that our clients say kept them from calling:

• I feel like I am betraying my significant other by checking up on them.
• I am afraid that you’ll be discovered and they’ll never trust me again.
• I’m afraid that I can’t afford it.
• I’m afraid that the investigator will know my significant other and tell him/her.
• I am afraid that my worst fears will be confirmed. Then what will I do.
• I’m not sure it matters if they are cheating. Will the court even care?
• Maybe I am crazy, just like he/she said.
• If they are cheating, it was my fault anyway.

Are you ready for the truth? The answer is Yes.

Since you’re looking at our website, you’ve probably been suspecting your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend of cheating for quite some time. You likely have a stomach ache and are unable to eat, sleep, or function effectively while at work. The doubt that you feel is wearing you out and causing you unbearable pain and suffering. One thing is for certain, you cannot maintain status quo. Something has got to give. You’ve got to know the truth, no matter how painful that may be. You did not cause this madness and you have tried everything that you know of to try to put aside these doubts and go about your daily business as if nothing is happening, but all the while, your instincts are overwhelming you.

What if I’m wrong? Even worse, what if I am right?

The decision to hire a private investigator can be one of the most difficult decisions that you’re likely to make. The results of an infidelity investigation can either offer you tremendous relief or be extremely devastating. In either case, they are always liberating. Knowing the truth, good or bad, will give you a sense of power that perhaps you haven’t felt in a long time. Now you’re “in the know” and can make good, sound decisions for both you and your family.

Let’s revisit those reasons why people are agonizing over the decision to wait to hire a private investigator.

• I feel like I am betraying my significant other by checking up on them:

  You haven’t fabricated the feelings that you’re having. You do not enjoy feeling completely uncertain about the status of your future with someone who you planned to be with forever. You’re feeling vulnerable and it’s time to ask your significant other why.

• I am afraid that you’ll be discovered and they’ll never trust me again:

  This rarely happens, but when it does, it is usually the direct result of threats being hurled at the cheater in anger. When a person is cheating, they remember such threats as “Tell me the truth or I’ll hire a private investigator”. If you haven’t said such things, you’re likely to be okay. People are not nearly as observant as we give them credit for.

• I’m afraid that I can’t afford it:

  We’re afraid that you can’t afford not to know. If you’re significant other is cheating on you, they may already have plans to leave, they’re just getting all of their ducks in a row to insure that it happens when they are ready for it to happen. Can you afford to be blindsided? Wouldn’t it make better sense to be proactive and get yourself into a position of strength?

• I’m afraid that the investigator will know my significant other and tell him/her:

  Simply put, this doesn’t happen. We employ licensed investigators with the highest integrity and sense of ethics. If we feel that there may be a hint of conflict; we will not accept your case. Remember that all calls and consultations are 100% confidential.

• I am afraid that my worst fears will be confirmed. Then what will I do?:

  You’ll get your support system in place. Get that one person who will receive your call in the middle of the night and one good attorney. It never hurts to have an attorney on retainer in cases of infidelity, especially if this isn’t the first time. Acting under the careful guidance of an attorney is always smart, but does not mean that you’re resolved to end your relationship. Save that decision until you have all of the facts.

• I’m not sure it matters if they are cheating. Will the court even care?:

  While it is true that in some states, it doesn’t matter if your spouse is unfaithful in the marriage. Infidelity is not a ground for divorce in most states, however, it may be considered while determining the division of assets, alimony and other such matters.

• Maybe I am crazy, just like he/she said:

  Perhaps. Statistically, however, this is not the case. You know yourself and your significant other very well. Trust your instincts and do not be swayed if you are resolved that something is happening. Ultimately, your hope is that a private investigator is a waste of money and proves that your spouse has been faithful all along.

• If they are cheating, it was my fault anyway:

  You cannot control someone else’s behavior, ever. If you’re spouse is cheating, there is no reason that will ever justify you’re having “driven” them to it. If you’re both adults, you both could have attempted open communication first.

If all of these concerns sound eerily familiar to you and you find yourself faced with the decision to hire a private investigator in California, call the experts now. Our caring staff of professionals is waiting to hear from you.

Call Empire Pacific Investigative Services, Inc., now for a free and confidential consultation at 888-926-6565